GreenConnect Group Finds Renewal and Friendship at Atisha Centre

Pamela and Kevin Aspinall, participants in the GreenConnect Dementia Respite Project, recently embarked on a transformative two-day respite trip to the Atisha Centre in Bendigo. Their journey not only offered a break from routine but also blossomed into a heart-warming tale of camaraderie and discovery.

Participants in the GreenConnect Dementia Respite Project. From left: Marg Rae, Dot Poynton, Pamela and Kevin Aspinall.

“We enjoyed many aspects of being together again with our GreenConnect Group, who we now call ‘Friends’,” shared Pamela. “It’s not easy to make friends when you're older, let alone have a disability or an illness.”

The Atisha Centre provided a sanctuary of serenity amidst nature’s embrace, offering a sense of safety and familiarity to all. “The peaceful surroundings and safety of the Atisha Centre allowed us to breathe a sigh of relief,” remarked Pamela.

One of the highlights of their stay was the Garden to Fork Project, an ambitious initiative to cultivate a sensory garden and herb patch. Pamela and Kevin eagerly joined the effort, anticipating the garden’s blossoming. “We are looking forward to doing whatever we can to get things cracking,” they affirmed.

The beginnings of the Garden to Fork Project, an ambitious initiative to cultivate a sensory garden and herb patch.

The project also showcased the artistic talents within the group, with each member contributing to the garden's adornment. From pathways to mosaic pots, the garden became a canvas of expression, reflecting the resilience and beauty of those facing dementia diagnoses and their caregivers.

For Pamela and Kevin, the respite underscored the therapeutic value of social engagement. “Getting out of the house and having places to go with a group is the best medicine,” they agreed. “If we don’t join in, nobody would know that we needed help or company.”

Sharing meals and watching movies together further strengthened the bonds within the group. “We had no idea how nice the Atisha Centre accommodations would be,” Pamela expressed. “Thanks to GreenConnect Dementia Respite, we were supported in this wonderful overnight stay.”

As they extend an invitation to others to join their journey, Pamela and Kevin reflect on the profound impact of companionship. “Kevin and I no longer feel loneliness,” Pamela shared. “To make friends, that’s the help we needed badly and that took us by surprise.”

Their respite serves as a testament to the power of community and the healing embrace of friendship found at the Atisha Centre.

Participants took part various activities including sessions on spirituality under the guidance of monk Thupten Chodak.

Pamela Aspinall, a resident of Bendigo, fulfils the crucial role of caregiver for her husband Kevin, who was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. As a member of the CarerConnect group, she is an integral contributor to the GreenConnect Dementia Respite Project, actively participating in various activities and providing essential feedback to assess their suitability for the Project. Through her dedication and advocacy, Pamela plays a vital role in enhancing the quality of life for individuals with dementia within the community and their caregivers.